The OP had always imagined her wedding as an elegant, adults-only affair. The thought of uninterrupted speeches, clinking glasses, and the absence of potential toddler tantrums seemed perfect. So, when she sent out her wedding invitations, she made sure to specify the ‘child-free’ rule, hoping her guests would appreciate the opportunity for a night off from parental duties.
However, as the RSVPs began trickling in, she was met with a surprising number of declines. Conversations with some close friends revealed that many were uncomfortable with leaving their little ones, even with OP’s generous offer of a trusted babysitting service. She found herself in a dilemma, torn between the vision she had for her big day and the realization that this decision might mean celebrating without many loved ones by her side. The dreamy wedding bubble seemed to be deflating just a touch, making OP wonder if certain traditions were worth bending for the sake of cherished company.
