After 8 years of marriage the OP asked for a divorce. This whole story starts 3 years ago when she got a promotion at work and started seeing the husband as someone who’s pulling her down. The OP narrates her story on Reddit
The husband having fewer hours at work meant less money but that was unexpectable to her…
She finaly asked for a divorce…
He tried to make it work but it was in vain. She went ahead and started posting about the husband on Reddit from her perspective which generated so much positive feedback
The divorce went through but the kids became miserable and she started having trouble at work
She finaly decided to start seeing a therapist and she now sees what an awful person she had become
She asked the ex husband if they could get back together
Final advice